
I am not sure whether it can be considered as viral, but since everyone (almost) is talking about it so I guess it is.Īnyway, I am not trying to do something that I don't like, but I notice that majority Malaysian (I don't really care about people in other countries) will not focusing on the issue.Įxample: (the easiest one is the 'Bangla' issue) I personally doesn't like to react to viral issues like the most recent one is the 1.5M of Bangladeshis planned to be brought into Malaysia. My eldest is now in secondary school, staying in hostel with lots of drama. Anyway, parenting is not smooth sailing and we do need lots of patience which most of the time I lose it. *sigh* Apparently NOOOOO! She was too attached, did not want to go to school, change to another but eventually things get better and then gets rougher and better again. we thought when our babies get older, parenthood becomes easier. I could not eat 'jamu' because she will cry all night having digestion problem. It gets rough when my baby refused breastfeeding, once breastfed she refused everything else. The joy of holding my baby in my hands makes me forget the pain during delivery. Getting married and get pregnant and smooth pregnancy. You WANT a baby, but sometimes you couldn't get pregnant and you try every thing to conceive, sacrifice a lot of money, from my point of view, it is parenthood even though there is no child to call you parents.Īnyway for me, the beginning was not very hard. You GET pregnant, but you MAY not want it. You DECIDE to use contraceptive, but sometimes you still get pregnant. I won't say 'when you decide to have a baby' because getting pregnant is not something you can decide.


I would say it started when you feel you want to have a baby.

I am not really sure when the parenthood started.
